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Standing in the Dark Screaming at the Stars

by nightpanther99

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Bus Wreck..
Jun 23, 2008 | 11:01 PM
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OK Let me setup a Scenario ... Ok a bus load of all your Friends are Unfortunately  Hit by a Train and everyone of them Die ... Ok this bus is Filled with past and present Friends .. You are given a list of your friends that Parished in the Crash... As you go down the list you look at the names and remember the last thing you had said to that person.... Was the last thing you said to them  i love you or was it something that was said out of anger .. If this happened to you would you have any regrets in your friendships ...Could you Say with a clear conscience we were close and loved eachother to the end ...  This could also apply to family members .. I think sometimes we are too quick to right someone off in our life not knowing how much it will hurt us when they are gone ..  I know this sounds Pretty Morbid but i think it makes us stop and think ...  
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My_Thoughts_Opinions read my blog
Jun 24, 2008 | 1:10 AM

I know just what you're talking about.

I have lost two daughters in the last 11 years.

Sherry, got mad at me because I would not go along with lying to her ex-husband so that I could spend time with my granddaughter while her brother was staying with us during the summer. Needless to say, my daughter got mad and wouldn't talk to me any more. I usually would call her back tell her that I'm sorry I made her mad and that I love and missed her. This time I didn't do it, I wanted Sherry to make the first move this time. You see I had just had a bypass a few days before that and I felt that she was wrong to treat me that way. I've always tried to do what I could for my kids, but I’ve never taken their side when ever they were in the wrong. They would have to pay the price for their actions.

Peggy, told her son something that she should of kept to herself, so I told her she was wrong to do that and I didn't call her for a week. The day I called, I told her that I really do love her and that I didn't what us to not talk to each other any more. So everything was ok, until later that night around 11:00pm, she calls and ask me not to talk to her boyfriend any more and I just said, oh Peggy please don't start this again and hung up. Around 12:30am I received a call telling me that Peggy was dead.

I live with this day in and day out, there is no getting away from it.

I know that this is a long dragged out answer, but there was only one way to let you know how much a person remembers the last thing said or done when you lose a loved one.
jeanette read my blog view my photos
Jun 24, 2008 | 3:38 AM

Good blog Danny.
I remember the last thing I had said when I get that call. It usually is good tho. Don't ever remember it ever being a negative thing tho. But sometime's I thought "Gosh! Wished I would of called them today but got busy and forgot".
mr_wildflower read my blog view my photos
Jun 24, 2008 | 4:15 AM

I would have no regrets for I have always gotten along with most everyone..... The ones that I have written off deserved it..... It's all about priorities..... A lot of people have them in the wrong order......
IbKat read my blog view my photos
Jun 24, 2008 | 5:42 AM

We all say things we regret at one time or another sometimes a person isnt in the same frame of mind when we deliver what we said be it a remark -an attempt at being funny -my boys know how i feel on a regular basics as does my family life is to short to be angry over trivial things -' id look at which friends it was and say what a ride we had "
rosie read my blog view my photos
Jun 24, 2008 | 6:38 AM

nope, my close friends have been on the most part, my friends for life, my family and i are all cool together..
michelle4wellness read my blog view my photos
Jun 24, 2008 | 12:31 PM

Well, I know firsthand how tough it is to lose a best friend in an accident. When Rhonda died, it had been over a week since we had talked. Our last conversation wasn't anything that would move mountains, but it wasn't anything negative either.

My "problem" is (and maybe this is not really a problem) that there are so many people in my life who I am GOOD friends with. Sometimes those people feel neglected when my life gets busy. I hope that the QUALITY of my time spent with friends is more important that the QUANTITY....there is just not always enough of me to go around, but I try to let those I love know without a doubt that I do love them.

Nice blog.

LOVE YOU DANNY!!
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