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Out of your whole life what is the one event , thing or person that you will always remember?

For many there may be more than one memory that sticks to you like glue.
Something that will change the way you live your life and the way you think.


To think that someones evil thinking and deeds and even a natural disaster could take away everything that means anything to you is so devastating and forever remembered.

Mine is finding out that my child will never ahve the life he deserves!
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asnapper read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2007 | 9:53 PM

Death of my daddy and my little brother...changed my life forever

frankherbert read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2007 | 10:08 PM

9/11. Terror attacks. 9/11. Evil Doers. 9/11.

bellker read my blog view my photos
Aug 20, 2007 | 12:35 AM

Good question.

I learned of a woman who killed her 10 year old step son because she was jealous of the relationship her husband had with his son. She was 21 years old.

She talked her best friend into checking the boy out of school early. She jumped up from the back seat and choked the boy to death while they drove down the street in the morning. They then took his body and burned in a field on the Thanksgiving Day Holiday weekend. The friend finally broke down in the FBI's office and told what happened.

I was outraged. She got life in prison without the possiblity of parol and her friend got 25 years. It was on tv this weekend.

This so far burns holes in all the other sad stories I have seen in my life time.

nosy4 read my blog
Aug 20, 2007 | 7:05 AM

THE MURDER OF MY DAUGHTER FOREVER CHANGED MY LIFE,AND WATCHING HER CHILDREN GROWUP WITHOUT HER THE PAIN IS SO UNFORGIVING & RELENTLESS.

LATINAWOMAN read my blog view my photos
Aug 20, 2007 | 11:01 AM

On a world wide level any big earthquake or natural disaster that we haven't any control over . Ofcourse the oklahoma bombing and 9-11. personally , my mothers death and bout with cancer .

thornyone read my blog view my photos
Aug 20, 2007 | 3:29 PM

The one? How can there possibly be just one?
If I go to the oldest memory that has never left me, it goes back almost 47 years ago. My brother and I were walking to the liquor store to return bottles. One our way home we took a short cut through a field of tall grass and I heard the most terrifying snarling growl, I couldnt move. My brother picked me up and pushed me to get me going, we ran all the way home and that growl haunted me the rest of my life and caused a lot of fear of the night. I was about 5 at the time.
Then watching my mother's slow decline after her stroke, watching her slowly die and loose all of what she had worked so hard for all her life.
On the positive side would be the night I met my husband, and then the pregnancies and births of my sons. Sorry, I cant just pick one.

leocadiovict read my blog
Aug 21, 2007 | 4:51 AM

I am sorry for all your sorrows and bad experiences ...
GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND I WILL PRAY FOR YOU!

thornyone read my blog view my photos
Aug 21, 2007 | 8:56 AM

Yes, thank you. I think anything that touches our loved ones is of course the most painful. Especially when you have to live it day to day. I can remember for the two years my mom was declining, waking up in the morning, sitting up on the edge of the bed then suddenly realizing that it was Not all just a bad dream. It was another day, of the nightmare that I dreaded all my life.
What does hold us together is for every dark, there is a light. For every rain, there is a shine. For every wrong there is a right. They just dont always seem to come in that order. Our family went through a year and a half back in 1996 and 97, we lost 21 relatives and close friends. It was a very rough time.

thornyone read my blog view my photos
Aug 21, 2007 | 8:58 AM

Oh and leo, you shouldnt refer to yourself as nobody. You are somebody, we may not know who your are but you will always be a somebody to someone.

bellker read my blog view my photos
Aug 21, 2007 | 11:17 PM

Thornyone.... waht was the growling noise?

RuchelleQ read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2007 | 10:23 AM

when my grandmother (who was more a mom than anything to me )passed away and her funeral was on my birthday and i also had to see my uncle that day who rapped me on my birhtday when i was little girl now my bithday is the day i dont ever want celebrate. that was the worst day of my life because i could not do anything and every one knew what happened :(

dasvics read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2007 | 10:52 AM

asnapper and Ruchelle, hi sweety's :-)


I am sorry for all of your loses. I've yet to experience a death of a loved one, so I admire your strength.

I've always known there was something special about y'all. You have the sweetest personalities, I know what it is, it's your love and faith in God that gets you through all the hard times. That same love is what allows you to remain sweet and loving. Take care….you too thorny one, latinawoman,…I’ve grown to respect you. We don’t always agree, but you’ve shown me what class is. Leo, great blog :-)


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dasvics read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2007 | 11:01 AM

Frank, 9/11 is definitely at the top of my list as well. I don't have to personally know someone to feel pain over their death. That morning of 9/11, when so many of our own where brutally murdered, is a memory that I could never forget.

A happy memory, my babies births…yep, the best ones :-)
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thornyone read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2007 | 11:58 AM

The growling noise? we never found out, my dad came home that night and when my brother told him what the noise sounded like I collapsed. My dad called the police, they came and took us to the field. They left me in the car while they went to look all they could see was a large area in the grass where something had been laying. We never did find out. When I was 16 and alone one night doing my homework I heard what sounded like kids in the front yard, I went to check but they were way down the street. On the way back inside the house I had to pass an area where we had vines growing, just before I got to the porch I heard that growl again. I almost ripped the screen door off its hinges getting in. Then I realized it must have just been in my head.

thornyone read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2007 | 12:05 PM

RuchelleQ. I am sorry for your losses, one being your grandmother and the other being your innocence. I too had such an Uncle, but no one ever found out. I kept it to myself (why? I dont know) My mom had to go through so much with my dad and brother I didnt want to burden her with any more. That was always my worst nightmare, loosing my mom. I felt every extra worry would shorten her life. I still believe that.
Maybe you should try to celebrate your half birthday. My birthday being December 1st so my half would be June 1st. You should celebrate your birth. I imagine it would be especially hard with so many bad memories.

thornyone read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2007 | 12:13 PM

dasvics, Thank you. We dont always agree with anyone. If we say we do we are lying. Because we may disagree doesnt make us mad at each other or enemies, It just increases our understanding of each other and gives us another way to look at things. We may not always like what we hear at the time, but later when we are alone with our thoughts we can generally understand the others point of view.
You are very fortunate to have not lost anyone close to you. I think I was in my 40's before it started, but then like I've written earlier the next year and a half...21...Now I try to be thankful for each and every day I can share and enjoy with my loved ones.

leocadiovict read my blog
Aug 22, 2007 | 4:35 PM

You are all special to me!
I do not know you yet i feel i do.
I know that GOD brings people together for a reason and maybe just to be someones sounding board or a computer shoulder to lean on is what it turns out to be.
I don't mind being here for all of you and i do repect your thoughts and feelngs.
My heart goes out to you all and i look forward to hearing from you all on a daily basis.
It's nice to have friends even though we may never meet in person it is just the fact of knowing yo aren't alone out here in this scary world.
Yes i am married but friends are always nice to have after all isn't that why GOD made so many people with a mind and soul and opinion and caring al rolled into one person ? We are all here to help one another and to know we are not alone.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND THANKS FOR VISITING MY BLOGS I LOOK FORWARD TO OUR NEXT TALKS.

RuchelleQ read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2007 | 4:37 PM

thank you dasvics and thonyone i appreciate the kind words yeah it has not been an easy road but i am glad i got it out in the open and i let people know that it is not there fault and there are people that are put there to help.

dasvics- i love you thought on life and how you live life.

dasvics read my blog view my photos
Aug 23, 2007 | 11:41 AM

aww, thanks Ruchelle, thornyone.

I'm not so sure you'd luv my life if you really knew it...srsly. I'm not all that. trust me. I admire you guys so much, for a reason.

:-)

waterboy read my blog
Aug 24, 2007 | 10:49 PM

Mine came when I was 22 standing abound getting in to trouble with friends and I witnessed a child abduction. Without even thinking I reacted and like to think that I saved a life that day. That action has changed the way I see the world. That action even made sub-conciously, defined me for who I have become. I believe in right and wrong and will never stand back and say that bad things sometimes happen to good people. Please get involved. I pray that your indifferance doesn't come back to haunt you.

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