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by kurkel from st charles

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Did you all see on the news this morning about the 8 teenage girls who invited this other girl over to a "party" as if she was their friend.....

See It Here

Then the proceeded to beat her senseless while they filmed it? Something she said on myspace that they took offense to.....

You watch as 1 girl is beating on her and slapping her....then she tries to leave and another gets her at the door. Then you see more on her beating on her on the couch, while someone is taping the whole thing.

And I guess they thougt this was all ok and they would be able to post the video on youtube ....no problem....

Another sign of todays times? What do you all think........

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mr_wildflower read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 8:01 AM

It's a sign of parents not properly raising their kids..... No thats wrong.... It's a sign of parents not raising their kids at all.....

kurkel read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 8:04 AM

so true Mr W....where were the parents when all this was going on??

miamiman read my blog
Apr 8, 2008 | 8:12 AM

time for jail time

sarcasticdragon
Apr 8, 2008 | 8:44 AM

Does anyone know the ages of the girl. They look 17 0r 18 to me. Old enought to serve some jail time.

They proved they have no problem with violence as a way to resolve issues. Lock them up before the kill someone next time.

Lock their parents up with them in the same 5 by 5 cell. Talk about quality time.

kurkel read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 8:46 AM

lol sarcastic...quality time...lol

good point...one would think they would be old enough for jail time then huh....

kkmmuurrpphhyy read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 8:51 AM

I think Randy's face said it all when the camera panned back to her after the clip...pure disgust.
There are a lot of angry kids out there now-a-days...we really need to take a step back and figure out what is going on with our youth.
It seems to make sense that if these kids are becoming so much more out of control, than the justice system needs to change accordingly. It's becoming an epidemic.

AMOM read my blog
Apr 8, 2008 | 8:59 AM

The parents who own the home where this occured should be arrested.

the4thstooge read my blog
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:07 AM

how can everything a cgild does be the parents fault?know matter how good of parents a person can be,you can't be with them 24/7,you can teach them right from wrong but what about the people they hang with?

kurkel read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:23 AM

If the people they hang with are a bad influence and are just bad themselves why as a parent do you let them hang out with them?

Do I think good parents can have bad kids? Yes
Do I think some parents try as best as they can ? yes
Do I think there are alot of parent out there who either dont care or are too busy working and/or doing other things to mess with their kids and are never home? ....YES! And if we MADE parents MORE responsible for WHAT their children did or do WHILE they are still living in the parents home...I guarantee you we would see more change....
OR you would see alot more kids getting booted out sooner and on their own to struggle which would also be a good thing.

kurkel read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:26 AM

IF they are living in your house and you are the adult and/or the parent...then you are responsible for what they do. IF you do not like it...either change it...or tell them to get out or have them taken somewhere if they wont listen or wont obey.
We have spoiled the kids of today's society. They think they can have whatever they want, do whatever they want and treat others any way they want or feel....and its all good

stlgirl read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:28 AM

I think they were 15- 17 yrs old. Two teenaged boys were outside the house as "lookouts". Kids just dont care anymore, they think its 'cool'.I thought the teens were bad when I was growing up, seems we were angels compared to some of the teens today.

kurkel read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:32 AM

I know what you mean stlgirl..me too. I grew up with some pretty tough girls and mean too. But these girls have them beat...hands down!

kathymc read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:50 AM

This is the most disgusting thing I've seen. I'm not sure what I relate this to. I do know that ALL of these kids should be arrested (including the boys who were the lookouts). I hope the police AND their parents really crack down on these kids. IF they don't these kids are headed for greater acts of meanness down the road.

On a separate thought, I'm not totally sure we should have MySpace and YouTube websites available for kids, teens to post ANYTHING, but I'm sure I'm one of the few who think this way about these websites. These websites lets teens (or whoever)think this kid of crude act is cooooooollll to do, film and then post. Something has to be done, IMO.

IneedUrHelp read my blog
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:52 AM

I did not see the tape, but don’t have too. The girls are the new bad boys of today. I have a 16 yr old daughter and the way these kids behave towards ea other is terrible. I am constantly amazed at the meanness that has become typical behavior. The plotting and fighting can be over nothing more than someone called someone else dumb (and the victim can be someone who up to a moment ago was the persons best friend). Don’t know about you, but I can see the similarity of their attitude in the attitude of the schools with their zero tolerance. Under zero tolerance, ALL errors are punished with zero thought to the situation/circumstances. The overall character of the kid is not considered, unless it’s bad and then the punishment can be increased. I think the kids are just responding in kind and using fighting as one form of punishment. These days, anything that bothers even one kid in a group of friends can be the reason for punishment and everything must be punished. The kids have zero tolerance to all things, even something as small as a hurt feeling. They have no concept of how else to deal with it other than applying punishment. The kids need to be taught to use understanding, to visualize different perspectives, look for alternative from punishment, and to be able to accept something’s are not that important or worth a stand. We need to make them understand that not everything is due a punishment, least of all being called a name. They should understand that punishment does not change behavior and is simply revenge. Positive actions change behavior and punishment i

IneedUrHelp read my blog
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:56 AM

One more thing - you'll be suprise at how many of the mean ones are good kids normally and good students. None of my kids friends are bad or mean or into drugs, etc. The meaness is acceptable and normal to them. Thats the scary thing. Kids learn this from anyone and what they see happening around them. Thats were we need to start making changes.. places they spend most of their time will and do already have the most influence.

IneedUrHelp read my blog
Apr 8, 2008 | 9:57 AM

the finish from my prev post -

Positive actions change behavior and punishment is a negative act. They need to understand that a “good punishment” is not determined by doing the worst thing they can think of. We need parents and the schools to help the kids learn this by example. Make them realize its about picking your battles and show them the action they take for whatever issue they have should focus on the outcome rather than the emotional response and need to take revenge.

kurkel read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 10:09 AM

IneedUrhelp...you said
We need parents and the schools to help the kids learn this by example.
Problem is many parents are sending their kids to the schools for them to "fix" them....OR when a child does something at school that is wrong and the parents are called about it they are indifferent or even abusive about their little johnny being picked on...
We as parents need to get tougher....we as parents need to teach these things at home. I am sorry but it is not being taken care of at home and that is the first and biggest problem. B/C unless or until parents start being parents again...nothing else is really gonna help...it starts at home!
We need to be home with our kids more...we need to show them by example...we need to make our kids do what they are supposed to do. Not let them get away with stuff or get by with stuff or find excuses for them. We as parents have gone soft on our kids ...or we are just gone....

stephan read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 10:12 AM

I found it shocking. The parents did a poor job raising the kids. They did not install in them the ability to make good choices. Even if they did and the kids had psycological issues, they failed by not paying attention to thier behavior and getting them help. I don't think the latter was the issue. Whats the chance of several psycological defectives hanging out and acting as one in a violent way. No, I think they where not raised correctly. How idiotic do you have to be to film yourself commiting a crime? They did themselves in. They should go to jail even if its just juvie. If its just juvie then by law the parents are responsable and are open to jail time themselves. The only open factor left is what the prosecuter will do. They need to throw the book at the kids and parents. If they are that violent then I bet they have recorded issues at school, so the excuses go out the window!

stephan read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 10:13 AM

Oh and this was obviously premeditated not just a incodent. They planned it well, that says enough!

lilmomma28 read my blog view my photos
Apr 8, 2008 | 10:20 AM

I do NOT agree that the aprents should always be quick to blame. You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make them drink......

Same applies with parents and their children. Now, if the parents were home when this was going on then YES!!! I can say the parents are to blame. You cannot be with your children 24/7. You can instill all the morals and values into your child all day long but the second they walk out of your door and they get around "friends" everything you taught them can go out the window.

I will say that fights sometimes happen. This was NOT an isolated incident! The was planned to where I would believe the parents werent home and they all gathered there and cohearsed the girl into coming over. At the age these girls are at they should be held accountable for their actions. That poor girl! It is disgusting that they jumped her like that and that would not allow her to leave the home and keep on beating her like they did. Especially over something that was said on Myspace!!!

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I am someone who loves the Lord...who loves my family, and who loves my friends. I love warm days and sunshine....I love oceans and beaches....I love spending time watching my boys have fun....I love watching my Daughter become a beautiful adult and friend... I love spending time with my best friend and soul mate. I love friends...and I have some REALLY good friends! I have some friends that I have had for 15 yrs and some I have had less than a year! But I love them all just the same and love spending time with them. I will be there for you my friends...just ask! HUGS to you all! Thanks fox2 for this community and for this avenue of communication! It's fun as well as many other things!...thanks!

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