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by FIGMAN from Viburnum, Missouri

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My family is about to embark into new territory. This next school year we will have a foreign exchange student live with us. I have been very reluctant to do this but after much consideration it seems the right situation has come about that makes my family feel comfortable with our decision.

 I am seeking anyone's advise, opinions and ideas that my family may be able to use in our efforts to help a young 16 year old lady have a good positive experience in our country. I take this responsibility very serious as this young adult will experience the USA through our eyes.    

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mr_wildflower read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 5:21 AM

Just don't burn her out trying to show her too much.... If she will be here for a year then you will have plenty of time to introduce her to America..... Plus it will be a huge ajustment for her so give her some space at first........

P.S....I'd get the chickens and the pigs out of the living room.....lol

harp read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 6:19 AM

My aunt and uncle had a exchange student once and they had 2 kids about same age..

They took him to places to show him part of our history like to the Rutherford B. Hayes Museum..

Found out he loved to fish so took him fishing,they asked him what he liked and they did all they could to show him tings and take him places..

As he made friends at school they let him throw a party and had his first teen party..

Just find out what he likes and do your best to do it for her.

jeanette read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 12:30 PM

Good luck figman. I am sure everything will be fine.

MissDaisy read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 3:37 PM

Hi Figman. Our family hosted an exchange student from Sweden in the 90-91 school year. We still email on occasion and he's returned for a visit a few times since he went back home.

It will be a great experience for all of you!

For instance, I never knew that they don't call their country, Sweden. To them, it's Sverige. Norway is Norge. I guess after taking French and Spanish in High School, I should have known we just gave it an American pronunciation.

The funniest thing was, I came home from work one day and he was eating what he thought was a bowl of cereal(s). He always pluralized it.. heh.. Anyway, he said, this cereals is salty. Sitting next to his bowl was a box of Bugles. After laughing for a half hour, I explained that that wasn't cereals. This young man was brilliant in school. A few years later, I mailed a box of Bugles to him. I told him I thought he was missing his favorite cereals. :)

I loved learning some of his language and his customs. He thought it was unusual to see children under the 4th grade level speaking English. It's mandatory in Sweden to take English from 4th grade on.

Here's a hint.. one thing you don't want to compete with is.. Mom & County. They will defend them to the end... as they should. :)

Enjoy your time together!

FIGMAN read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 4:49 PM

Mr Wild - good advice...actually the pigs and chickens would make her feel at home from what I understand.

Harp and Jeanette...thanks...!

MissDaisy - good stuff and meaningful information. This young lady is from the former Soviet Union that is now the country of Georgia. We have learned a lot about her and her country from the young lady in our community who knows her. We have exchanged emails and we are looking forward to the experience. Thanks for your 2 cents, I do appreciate it.

rosie read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 6:41 PM

the exchange student that hermann had this year was from germany, ya couldnt tell, her host family even gave her a car to drive, she came in the shop alot, she fit in so well ya would never know she was an exchange student, she left about a month ago, i miss the lil shite...lol, shes on my facebook so we still chat

FIGMAN read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 6:47 PM

Rosie - we have had several in our community and there has been some issues but some were created by the host family. One family I can think of thought they had been given a slave for house work...that didn't last long..! My wife had one when she was in high school and it worked well for their family.

Speedy62269 read my blog
Jun 28, 2008 | 8:18 PM

Hey Lance - what's up? I would not have them watch the news as much as I do now. This would really change their overall perception of the US and the St. Louis area. I would steer them more towards the religious functions in the area, the things kids do (sports/camps/etc), and community efforts.

I believe our biggest negative is our news media and this I would "filter" in order for this gal to have a positive or at least neutral outlook on our nation.

FIGMAN read my blog view my photos
Jun 28, 2008 | 8:25 PM

Speedy.....good point....I have asked about the local news in her home area and it appears to be very governmental. Her goal is to be a journalist so the news may be something hard to limit but I will try to monitor it and think about it before viewed.

miamiman read my blog
Jun 30, 2008 | 6:58 AM

learn the sudents culture also like i learned the cuban and swedish culture. i have a penpale named monica and she lives in karlstad sweden and we learn from each others culture over the past 26 years.

FIGMAN read my blog view my photos
Jun 30, 2008 | 7:11 AM

miamiman - the culture differencs are one thing I am really aware of. I don't want to offend the student in any way, yet I want them to experience who we are in America. In rural Missouri we are guilty of poor english and lots of slang and we need to be aware of what we project. It will be an interesting time.

miamiman read my blog
Jun 30, 2008 | 8:42 AM

maybe you can find someone near or around you that comes from her country in case she gets home sick. i have fist hand expeierce on this because i was sent to another country to stay for a while andi did not come out of the house for one week.

miamiman read my blog
Jun 30, 2008 | 8:53 AM

i did not want to highjack this thread but when i was in the 11th grade i was sent to greece to spend time with relatives that i had never met so i left the usa and was thrusted in a country and staying with people i had never met before but it turned out alright.

just think positive

FIGMAN read my blog view my photos
Jun 30, 2008 | 9:04 AM

We do have someone in our community that is from her area originally and another person that actually knows the young lady. This will be a big help plus we are a busy family. I know I am an over protective dad but my 16 year old would not go to another country for the school year. It seems though many youth from other countries want to come here for education and opportunity.

FIGMAN read my blog view my photos
Jun 30, 2008 | 9:06 AM

miamiman - do worry on the highjacking...you are doing exactly what I wanted...opinions, ideas and information...I believe this is very serious stuff as we want to have as much knowledage as possible.

miamiman read my blog
Jun 30, 2008 | 10:36 AM

that is good that you have someone in your community that is from her country and that is a plus.

miamiman read my blog
Jun 30, 2008 | 10:40 AM

in the city we are guilty of poor english and slang also. just act if she is not there meaning do not change too much because people travel to get the real flavor.when i first went to miami being with roxanas cuban family was the real flavor of the area not a hotel room in south beach.

bellagirl1 read my blog
Jun 30, 2008 | 11:02 AM

My daughter and her husband hosted a young exchange student about three years ago.
They really enjoyed him while he was here and he still contacts them from time to time. He was a lot of fun and never gave them any stress.He went to church with them and did well in school.
By the way, i know people from viburum and use to live there some twenty years ago. Sure is a small world. Any way, i think you will enjoy having this young lady stay with you and i believe it's a wonderful way to show how really great america is.

FIGMAN read my blog view my photos
Jun 30, 2008 | 11:07 AM

bellagirl1 - Now you have my attention...not many folks know where Viburnum is...20 years ago...give me some clues..!

perkypolock read my blog view my photos
Jun 30, 2008 | 11:42 AM

My niece right now is living with a family in Spain. Its been an experience so far she claims. She left in May and returns home on July 9th. They conserve water. They take bath every 2 or 3 days. Use to washing your hair everyday..well not anymore. The public swimming pools are topless.. All ages.

But she is loving each day. The family she lives with are funny and very nice she says. You will enjoy it Fig.

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I live in the middle of the Mark Twain National Forest in a tiny town called Viburnum. I enjoy watching the news and keeping up with the events from local to around the world. I own businesses that consist of Farmers Insurance, AT&T Wireless, License Office, Just Like Home Laundry and Tropical Iceberg. My hobbies include golf and being involved in the community. My wife is the best teacher in the state and I have 3 great kids. www.farmersagent.com/lmay
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